Ladies, Are You Getting Cheated in Bed?

Many women agree that they don’t reach their sexual peak until they are in their thirties, maybe even later. It often takes that long for her to defeat her own personal insecurities about sex which interfere with her ability to give and receive maximum pleasure. Meanwhile, she spends countless lovemaking sessions “faking it” and giving her best imitations of a porn queen, because that’s what she thinks her man wants. When you do this you are cheating yourself in bed.

Its bad enough many of us feel pressure to look like swim suit models and music video girls. But we also feel pressured to move and sound like porn stars in the bedroom Shibuya Kaho . Once again we are wasting our time trying to live up to an imaginary and unrealistic ideal. Much of that moaning and screaming didn’t take place when the couples were actually having sex. What we’re hearing are voice overs taped in a recording studio.

When you let self consciousness and outside standards interfere with lovemaking, you are not only robbing yourself of a beautiful, pleasurable and natural experience, but you are also robbing your partner. When you are thinking too much and trying too hard, sex becomes a chore. Instead of being the fun release that nature intended, it becomes a job that you do out of duty and obligation. We all have plenty of jobs to do. Why create more?

Besides, your partner will be turned on much more by your natural and instinctive expressions of pleasure and fulfillment. Even if you were to “act” your way through sex you are probably going about it the wrong way. Professional stage actresses are trained not to “act” but to let the truth of the moment escape through them to their stage partner and not rehash obvious stereotypes. So even if you did want to please your man by making him think you are “turned-on”, the best way to go about it would be to actually get “turned-on”.

Be honest to yourself and be honest to him. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. If you are so not into it that you have to fake it, don’t sleep with him that night. Otherwise spend your energy being in the moment and focusing on receiving (and giving) real pleasure.

First off, it’s important for an aspiring model to understand exactly what this type of modeling is. Simply put, adult modeling involves posing in at least lingerie, but more often than not it involves posing topless or full nude, and even some times with graphic sexual content – known as hardcore modeling. While topless modeling can pay the bills with the proper set of physical gifts, it usually takes a willingness to pose full nude for a model to see any positive effects on her bank account. And then of course there is hardcore modeling which is most prominent in the adult modeling and entertainment industry.

Models who perform in hardcore productions, also known as porn stars, make the most money. Their income is derived from photography and film work, as well as through guest appearances, signings, adult entertainment events, and last but certainly not least, their personal membership website. A model’s website which accepts monthly memberships from fans to view their content, as well as selling merchandise and feature webcam shows, can easily make a model more money than anything else. Some more prominent adult models gross more than $20,000 – $30,000 per month, and some of them only pose nude. But while appearing in hardcore productions may be the most lucrative, it is also the most demanding and if not handled properly, could lead to a quick burnout. Before plunging into something because of the profit potential, make sure it is something you are comfortable with and something you really want to do; the most successful adult models and entertainers really love what they do!

After deciding that adult modeling is something you really want to do, it is then important to decide whether to go at it alone or seek the assistance of an adult modeling agency or management company.

Agencies and management companies have connections in the industry, as well as experience, and the abilities to market a model and give her the publicity that she needs to get noticed by not only potential clients such as photographers and producers, but almost as importantly – if not more importantly – fans. Having a large fan base is key to a model becoming successful financially and emotionally. A loyal fan base will not only buy their favorite model’s merchandise and sign up to her website, and visit her at appearances and clubs, but they also will provide her approval, adoration and respect. Many models credit their fans for getting through those tough days when the last thing she wants to do is get in front of the camera. A good model management agency can help the model develop the fan base through innovative marketing and promotional methods.

An agency also gives the model a degree of respectability in the industry. They will negotiate on her behalf with photographers, producers and other adult content distributors who wish to hire her, and they will make sure all contracts are legit.

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